Tuesday, March 27, 2012

Spring heat wave: March 27

Greetings.  Work and company interrupted my blogging, but let me catch up with some highlights.
We are having the warmest March weather since 1968. Average daytime temperature all week has been 24C (75 degrees F).
The fruit trees all over town are in bloom and these crab apple blossums make me swoon.


Nancy arrived Thursday evening and I met her at Paddington Station.  After dropping her bag at the flat, we walked to the Flask Tavern for Fish and Chips. Friday morning we set out before 7am to catch the student field trip coach in Kensington.  The two hour drive (compared to 50 minutes by train) got us to Brighton at the Southern tip of England mid morning.  
We set off to walk the Victoria era (restored) pier.  It was like the Pike in the 1950’s with bumper cars, rollercoaster, food concessions—selling, however, cockles and mussels.  Also, unlike the Pike it was clean without the unsavory characters that frequently that venue.

Then we walked to the Pavillion.  What a strange place the Prince Regent  built in the 18th C—one that Queen Victoria thought reflected her Uncle’s crassness.  It was over the top opulent, but interesting.  
The Prince built it as an homage to his Roman Catholic wife (a marriage not recognized by the King).  When Prince Regent ran out of money, he had to borrow from the King who insisted on a proper marriage--arranged, of course.  Marriage occurred and Prince could not stand the smelly, unkempt wife.  After one and only night together, she conceived the Princess Charlotte.  The Prince had long since returned to his RC wife in Brighton and continued to work on the Pavillion.
After our tour, we poked through the 17th Century lanes with an assortment of retro shops and made our way to UK’s most highly regarded vegetarian restaurant—Terre a Terre. 
It was some kind of wonderful.  Nancy had a beetroot soup and some corn cakes which had elegant spices and were delicious.  I had RajRammi (who knows?) which consisted of a potatoe pancake resting on some butternut squash puree covered in aubergine sauté with a topping of cooked pineapple and coconut.  Sounds weird, but was really special.
Nancy brought the bears, of course.

Then we photographed some graffiti and found our way back to the sea to return to London.  





It was a long drive in Friday traffic.  Friday after bathing and wrapping in warm clothes we went out to look at Parliament, Big Ben and the Tower Bridge.  
London Tower bridge
Parliament building.

Walked around Westminster and enjoyed the Friday night sites, although by 10:30 pm when we got on the tube for home, the drunks were beginning to outnumber us. 

Saturday we visited the National Gallery, ate Morrocan food for lunch, had the best cup of coffee I have ever tasted at Monmouth Coffee Company and visited Buckingham Palace.  The warm spring weather took a big chill and we were really cold by 6pm so headed home. Always nice to have a little time with Cezanne, Pissaro, Van Gogh and Monet.


Sunday Morning Nancy went off to Tate Modern while I caught up on backlogged work.

Turns out the “mystery” bird is a magpie. I see them all over Hampstead in pairs.  They are slightly smaller than crows and apparently as universally disliked.
In addition to robbing songbirds' nests, they steal bright shiny objects--like buttons off shirts on clotheslines.  They are often in twoseys as they mate for life and said to be the most intelligent of all birds. 


Nancy returned to Spain yesterday and after class today, I took the train to Watford Junction with the idea of taking photos of signs for the Watford family namesake.  When I discovered the return trains leave only hourly, I cut the photo journey off.
The return was on an express train and allowed me some interesting views of railroad art--as opposed to street art.
I never take photos of children without parent's permission, but could not resist this--I think his face is sufficiently obscured to meet my standard--this 7 or 8 year old is waiting for his 7:30am train while reading the morning paper in his school uniform.
Priceless.


I now have less than a month left in London and it feels like a party ending too soon.  I am so content here, but I am feeling the pull of home too.
Work to do.  Sending peace, love and good vibes.

Tuesday, March 20, 2012

Celebrating Nowruz: Persian New Year and the Vernal Equinox

March 20th

What a wonderful time of year to be in London.  Bulbs in bloom; fruit and nut trees blossoming; air warm enough to walk around with no coat.  It is perfectly lovely.


I have been wrapped up with work, but still able to enjoy walks every day.  Yesterday, after shopping for shoes, the life was sucked out of me.  Malls and large stores do that to me.  I got exhausted by early afternoon and took a two hour nap.  Felt good until 11pm when I could not sleep.  So, I watched TV.  British TV is odd.  Half the channels on cable are selling things (I think that is QVC in the States?), but the channels are niched by product: cosmetics on one channel, jewelry on another, clothes on another, etc.  Then there are hilarious cooking shows, funny reality shows, news shows, and a USA channel. Guess what USA shows? You are right if you guessed: Law and Order and CSI.  Ha! 

The funniest reality TV includes four people chosen at random to host each other in week at four  dinner parties. They score each other based on theme, costumes, menu and food.  Very silly show.

To give an idea of how massive the stores are, I was in Selfridge in Oxford Circus (aptly named shopping district—it is a Circus) where the entire 3rd floor is women’s shoes.  This would be the size of 7X the whole Nordstrom at South Coast Plaza.  And, it is organized by designer—so for somebody like me—argh, where are the cute flats? Frustrated, I tried to find my way out and got snagged by the cosmetic counter where a lovely older women asked to “help” my dry skin.  Oh, sucked in again.  Trish McEvoy took a large chunk of my bank account—and all the purchase ( I cannot confess the purchase amount) fit in a teeny, tiny little bag.  Can’t believe I fell for it.

Today, after a difficult class, where we discussed hate crimes as well as Trayvon Martin and the school massacre in France,  I searched out a Middle Eastern market in search of lamb chops.  Got very lucky and found neighborhood of ethnic delis, markets and people where prices are much lower than in posh Hampstead.  The lamb was marinated in ginger, lemon and other herbs.  And, it was, in fact Divine.

Tomorrow, I will spend an inordinate amount of time and almost no money on a Vidal Sassoon haircut.  The “advanced academy” for Vidal is here and a haircut takes 5 hours due to the supervision of “experts,” but it costs 12 BPD ($18).  So, I am game.  Ever since my hairdresser of 38 years died, my hair has been a hot damn mess.  Ellis was a Sassoon trained master who for many years kept me stylish and zingy.  As many of you know, I turned my head and hair over to Ellis despite his salon’s location in Brentwood.  Seriously, he was a big loss to me after all those years.  So—I am giving the academy a whirl.  Anything is better than what I have going on.

Back to work.  Later this evening, there is a jazz ensemble performing down the block.  If I can pull myself together, I will check them out.  This is another huge difference from home.  I would no sooner consider going out alone in the evening to listen to music than to walk to work in Fullerton.  Yet here, the pubs are not bars.  They are more like a neighborhood community centers complete with children and families. Very comfortable and welcoming.

Nancy is coming Thursday for a London weekend and I hope to show her things that will  help her like the experience.  



Saturday, March 17, 2012

Happy St. Patrick's Day


My Saturday was spent reading student papers, doing laundry, sorting out my 2011 taxes, and seeing a delightful film.  It is raining today—the first serious rain in two and half months.  The wind broke my umbrella. Oh well.  And, I am behind on edits for Berna.  Tomorrow I cannot leave the flat until that is complete.

Let me tell you about Everyman’s Cinema in Hampstead.  Part-way down a cobblestone alley, the entrance looks no bigger than an old jewelry store.  Climb the stairs in the old building (converted in 1920 to current use as a cinema).  On the left is a table with the menus.  The cashier shows the seating plan and asks which seat you choose. My ticket was 13 BPS (roughly $19). To her left is a buffet of Indian food or one can be seated and order off the menu.


The seats include either armchairs or small sofas (two seaters) with loose pillows.  There are also booths along the side aisle which have a long ottoman for one’s footrest.  Near each seat is an ice bucket (in case you order a bottle of wine or champagne).  Lest you picture this as elegant, be assured it is rather shabby with the upholstery showing wear and stains.  Nonetheless, menu is extensive and the wait staff attentive.  The menu included:  several mixed cocktails (Cosmo, Mojito, etc), four wines by bottle or glass, five types of tea, expresso, latte, etc.  And one could select from the “Deli” items such as three varieties of spreads including different types of olives, hummus, bread OR deserts such as home baked cookies, brownies, carrot cake.  And, there were three flavors of ice cream and three types of frozen yogurt.  I ordered tea and admit it was a treat to watch a film sipping tea.

The “previews” included a lovely ad for Cartier, one for an airline and one for a shopping center plus two selling alcohol.  Then there was a hilarious spoof on TSA which was set in a movie theater with inspectors going through one’s purses and popcorn looking for cell phones (Mo-BILES to Brits) as a reminder to turn off phones.

The film was charming.  Highly recommend if it is in the states: The Best Exotic Marigold Hotel.  Hilarious, sweet, and uplifting. Cast includes Judi Dench, Maggie Smith, Bill Nighy.

No photos today as I decided to leave camera at home and travel light due to the weather. My students’ midterms required them to analyze two British norms that differ from home.  Here are two of their observations which are so true.
1.  Paradox of public/private space.  In London it is taboo to talk to fellow passengers on the tube.  Everyone puts up a shield (newspaper, gameboy, whatever) to avoid making eye contact and conversations are few—and in hushed tones.  They do two things on the tube that we find almost astonishing.  Girls put on full makeup in little mirrors—foundation, eyelashes, blush, shadow, etc.  And, young couples engage in PDA that far exceed anything one would ever witness in public in the states—really get carried away in their bubble of pretend privacy.

2.  The Brits do not shake hands.  When meeting, they are likely to engage in conversation on touchy subjects like politics BEFORE asking your name.  Then, they might ask your name.  Standard greeting is, “You alright?” rather than “Hi, how are you.”

We are all starting to get acculturated and adopting those things that prevent us being marked as “tourists.”  I found a good used bookstore to pass along my paperbacks and to find some light reading—although today I immersed myself in some heavy academic stuff on critical race theory.

Tomorrow is Mothers’ Day in UK and Monday (March 19th, Feast of St. Joseph) is Fathers’ Day.


Friday, March 16, 2012

Friday, March 16th

Well, after two, beautiful Spring days where a light raincoat posed a heavy, unneeded burden, the cold foggy weather is upon us.  This is the first I have seen of London Fog and all I can say is that it is as damp and chilling as I imagined. After grading papers for several hours, I went down to the St. Giles Friday recital followed by a meeting.

The tube is such a civilized vehicle from getting across town. Here is the Tottenham Court Station (promounced: Tot n um).
These murals line the entire tunnel system connecting the Northern and Central lines at Tottenham Court Road.
Not only are the colors amazing, but the wrap around effect of the murals is stunning.
This is the one place where the artist's signature is displayed.
This is hilarious version of a mad dash by a character evocative of Superman in plain clothes.
Tile every which way.  I only wish I had the balance to snap the overhead view from the escalator but I fear vertigo and losing my grip.

I also went shopping for another pair of flats and a skirt to see me through the next 6 weeks.  I have taken to carrying heels to work because between the cobblestone paths and the jumping up and down the "gaps" alighting the tube, flats are much safer--on the many stairs, as well.  No luck as London prices smacked me right in the face.  A poorly made pair of flats cost 140 BPS ($210).  I'll keep looking.

I have been reflecting on both Prague and Amsterdam. Both were very rich in entirely different ways.  Let me share my experience at the Van Gogh museum.  I have digested more of it on reflection and in my sleep where most of my important psychological work is accomplished.

First of all the museum is modern with lots of light and space--not a cramped place at all.  Second, the permanent collection is presented based on places Van Gogh lived: Aires, Paris, Antwerp, etc.  The paintings themselves are, of course, "wow."  And, there are excerpts from letters he wrote about the paintings so that you can hear what was important to the artist about the piece.  It was dazzling, if crowded.

Then, the temporary exhibit is truly soulful.  Entitled, "Dreams of Nature: Symbolism from Van Gogh to Kandinsky," it explores the relationship between music, poetry and art in European landscape paintings done 1830-1920.   Not only were 95% of the paintings stunning, the excerpts of poetry that either inspired the painting or vice versa was a beautiful synchrony.  In addition, there were earphones by many of the paintings that had (always) two selections: one composed at the time the painting was done and one contemporary (usually 2011-2012).  Looking into those landscapes and hearing, for instance Arnold Bocklin's Isle of the Dead was accompanied by a piece the painting had inspired Rachmaninoff to compose.


Claude Debussy's Nocturnes went with a piece inspired by Whistler's painting.
The mood evoked kept reminding me of Walt Whitman poetry.  Imagine.  A continent away at the same time, our great-grandfather of American poetry was writing about the same themes: the impact of industrialization on the human spirit and the freedom souls can experience through nature.
The paintings were new to me and very compelling.
This is the exhibit which ended with a display of boulders.

Overall, the Van Gogh museum deserves more time and more play. If I could afford the time doing justice to what I remain to see in London, I would not hesitate to return.  Alas, there is too much to do here before my brief sojourn ends.  I must go to Brighton, for instance.

One of the surprises of the Van Gogh museum visit was how many Finnish landscape painters intrigued me. I have never felt any desire to go to Scandinavian countries.  After this exhibit and the many landscapes by Finnish painters, I am reconsidering.   I wish I had just one example.
The exhibit finished with works by Kandinsky.
The museum was fantastic in its collection, better than usual in its arrangement of works, and spectacular in its narratives.

So, I want to return.

And, today I am also thinking about our class trip yesterday to the Docklands Museum on the Isle of Dogs. In addition to documenting the British center of trade for two centuries, it also provided a chronicle of the British involvement in both slave trade and sugar plantation exploitation.  Rather chilling.

Ides of March

I survived a day without internet at the flat and am happy that the router was reset today. 

Last night I had the rare and exquisite opportunity to be Peter U.’s guest for dinner at his Reform Club.  It was elegant entry into a time warp.  Located among Embassies, near Trafalgar Square, the Reform Club was founded in 1836 by those pledged to support England’s Reform Law and the early Liberal Party. Today, the Club is a social venue for members only. It is located in “clubland” near St. James and is one of the architypes for men’s clubs that flourished in the 19th century (think: Kickerbocker Club in NYC; the Algonquin in Boston; the California Club in LA).  It was the first of its kind to admit women (1981), although the vestiges of a men’s sanctuary are heavy. 

The butler who greeted me at the door asked how he could help (a clear indicator that I was on “intruder” status).  I mentioned my name and that I was a guest of Peter U.  The butler instructed me to deposit my coat downstairs in the “ladies cloakroom” after which he would “announce me to Dr. U.”  I was led to the sitting room where we exchanged social pleasantries before being asked to the dining room.
The architecture is overpowering. Of course, I did not assume to take photos as that would be both gauche and embarrassing. From the internet, I found these images which represent very much what I saw.


Harkening back to bygone days, the dinner menus had no prices.  Peter had a little tablet to handwrite our orders for the waiter (and I assume it served as a chit for accounting purposes).  I had a lovely sea bass and salad.  After dinner, Peter toured me though the building and showed me the exhibit he has created of Reform Memorabilia for the Queen’s Diamond Jubilee.  He has quite a collection of vases, bowls, buttons and urns from 1836 commemorating the passing of legislation which reapportioned representation for England and Wales and enfranchised more voters.

There was a card room where several tables of men and women were playing bridge.  That was a contrast to the dining room where most tables were men only.  The library was fairly empty at the dinner hour except for the large collection of volumes (they have a full time librarian).  The smoking room was extremely roomy with a large fireplace and a variety of green leather chairs for enjoying cigars and pipes. 

Although it was a lovely evening where I got a Brit’s perspective on everything from Scotland’s bid for independence to the state of produce in London markets, it was too reminiscent for me of the days of serious and genteel gender inequality. 

I recall being a young college student invited to lunches and dinners at the LA Athletic Club, and the Jonathan Club. Both, like the Reform Club, had very restrictive dress codes. None allowed women or people of color to be members; but, on certain days of the week, a member could bring the wife, a date or his children up the “ladies elevator” to the one dining room where women were allowed admission. 

At the time, the same etiquette prevailed as I observe at the Reform Club 2012: the waiters spoke only to the men and we were given menus sans prices. At the time, I was working in downtown and going to USC.  My boss, Mr. Harvey, was eager to match-make and introduced me to two of his single, “eligible” clients.  It was always quite uncomfortable for me.  One very nice man owned Peruvian restaurants (the Inca on Beverly and the other one out on Wilshire Boulevard); he was about 30 years old—which was ancient to this 18 year old. In retrospect, Gabriel was probably gay.  His parents and Mr. Harvey were distressed at how such a suave, fit, good dresser could not find a nice, Catholic wife.  We became friends, but there was zero chemistry.  Despite the lack of attraction, he kept inviting me to lunches and dinners at his clubs as well as a few swimming outings at the Beach Club and evening soirees with his family.  For the most part, my associations with those times and the restrictive mores for women and people of color are not fond. 

It seemed to me then that the continent was separating into two cultures—like Teutonic plates moving in different directions.  Somewhere in about 1968 or 69 the girl who saved paychecks to buy cunning, fashionable four inch heels and little hats at J. Magnin’s morphed into the one who was more comfortable wearing jeans, hanging out with the pot-smoking protesters for civil rights and against the Vietnam War.  I felt that when the cultural divide between generations occurred, we had to pick sides. It was also obvious that it was not about age since many of my age cohort joined the conventional culture while the counter culture had some geezers, too.

My ambitions when I left home at 17 were to finish college, marry a rich cat (Catholic goes without saying) who had impeccable manners; the plan was to create a lifestyle around what I had observed from the outside: tennis, country club, bridge, a lovely home decorated with colors of celery and paprika and as many children as the rhythm method of birth control provided.  What a difference a year made. 

Perhaps those stilted, less than authentic adventures at the LA men’s clubs provided a window into the oppression that was part and parcel of the fantasy dream bubble I had imagined as my future when in high school.  All I really aspired to was avoiding those painful kitchen table sessions of bill-paying which seemed so fraught with anguish. 

Far from a feminist at the time, I had some inkling that the dream came with a big price of loss of self.  When granted access to the world of the wealthy in a role beyond “babysitter,” I had an instinctive revulsion at the setup which confined “ladies” to men-pleasing mannequins with few opinions  in exchange for being provided for. That is not how women in our family behaved.

Because I was a scholarship student at USC, I was on the outside of most social activities, too.  On weekends, the other scholarship students, the orthodox Jews, and the Black athletes were the only ones left on campus.  Our group and for the most part those who became friends—were those I kicked it with for leisure.   That had much to do with my evolving awareness of injustice and the mandate to participate in change.

I have a mountain of papers to grade and some London wanderings to do.
Ciao



Wednesday, March 14, 2012

Back Home in London: March 14th

Arrived home to London early Tuesday morning from Amsterdam after a delayed flight and a missed train.  It is definitely Spring-time in the British Capital.  Walking a new route to the market today, I saw this fruit tree in bloom.

Getting closer for a tighter shot, I saw the sign on the wall declaring it as Freud’s Museum and it was open.  The smell was delicious.  Intoxicating and sweet.

Here is a snap of the famous couch Freud used in psychoanalysis. He lived here with his daughter, Anna.


Then I met this little fella who gave me a physical twinge of homesickness.  Little Oz dog without the bark.  He just sat at the gate and visited with me without a peep.

So, a little recap of Prague and Amsterdam is in order.  Prague is indeed a beautiful city with the River Vitva flowing through it and graced by three lovely bridges.  As the driver approached the city from the airport there was huge firework display over the water which we gather was in honor of the International Women’s Day.  


Our hotel was superb. Arcadia Residence.  Right on the Old Town Square, our suite had two bedrooms and baths, a kitchen, sitting area and great view.  Here are some shots of the room and one of the view out the bedroom window. (I won the coin toss and got the room while Nancy got the sofa bed which she claimed to be comfortable.)
View from my room:
Panarama of the $50 per night place.

Our Italian host, Pasqual, could not have been more helpful.  He should give lessons in hotel management.  Our Friday morning started with cooked breakfast off a menu at the hotel and a three hour walking tour of the city. 


 The guide was humorous and well versed on architecture, history and culture of Czechs.
The City, once the seat of the Roman Empire and also the seat of the Hapsburg dynasty, has very heavy and tall buildings.

The early Bohemians have a long history of fighting off occupiers and oppressors—about 12 centuries worth of experience which may account for what I perceived as dour dispositions.  I did not see any Czechs who looked like they were enjoying life.  The Czechs consume a massive amount of alcohol, pride themselves on being atheists, and look downright gloomy.  In addition, it was dead winter so there was neither green nor flowers anywhere in the landscape—summer might be more cheerful. 

So, despite the excellent food and beauty of buildings, I was not eager to stay long in Prague.  My childhood resulted in a keenly developed set of antennae for the impending depression in others. Prague, for this traveler, evoked that sense of impending doom about to collapse on those around me who possess more delicate temperaments.

 That said, we did not have time to do everything I would have liked.  We did visit the Museum of Communism, ironically located between MacDonald’s and a Casino.

 It was an incredible experience to see the forty years of Communist rule in Prague documented with artifacts, narratives and photos.  The exhibit ended with a fantastic documentary that I wish I could get my hands on.  The militarized police state and the propaganda were so familiar with what is happening in the States to protestors that it was eerie.  The Velvet revolution in 1989 seems to have given the Czechs self rule and democracy.  In one of their revolutions, they exploded the 15 meter (50+ feet)statue of Stalin that had been erected over the city in 1955. 

Wensalaus Square, named for the bohemian king murdered by his brother and a conspiring Catholic priest, is currently the site of all upscale shopping—Prada, Dolce & Gabana, Chanel, etc.  It is bound on one end by the National Gallery and the other by a statue of its namesake.  It is where the student Jan Palach set himself on fire in a 1969 protest.  It is also the site of the mass demonstrations in 1989 dubbed the “velvet revolution” where hundreds of thousands gathered shaking their keys in protest.

Our frequent walks over the Charles River are not well photographed because of the press of humanity.  For off-season, the city was jammed with tourists. Unfortunately, when we got ready to tour the oldest active synagog in the world (since 11th Century), it was Sabbath and closed.  
This cubist building housed a charming 1940's style tearoom with little pastries and good coffee.

The Nazis moved into Prague in 1939 and part of its large preservation is said to stem from the Nazi plan to make Prague their headquarters after they won the war.  We know how that turned out.
In the plaza, there are wood burning fires where all kinds of food is cooked over coals.  Here is a sample.

Big meat story in Prague.


These are a type of pastry like donuts but roasted over coal on long wooden spindles. 
And, yes, those are flying ashes.

The other warning I have to Prague travelers is that cigarette smoke is unavoidable.  Walking a couple blocks, I smelled like a dirty ashtray.  Upon return to hotel after every walk, I hung my clothes out the window to air out and washed my hair—twice a day.  Icky, stinky and ubiquitous.

Their infrastructure is good.  Here is the subway stop where we caught a ride to a busstop where we got on the airport express.

Sunday morning we were off to Amsterdam where we took a train from the airport to the central station in the city.  What a charming city.  And, it is so light-hearted after Prague.  There are bicycles everywhere. And “coffee shops” which are marijuana dens---smoke so thick that we were worried about getting a contact high.  And, had shops selling drugs. 

We wandered around too long looking for the Burger Bar my students had recommended—no luck that night.  Then we took a trolley to the museum square where our hotel was located. 



 We could not find it either.  Neither could anyone we asked.  So we got a nice meal and set our again with our little wheels on suitcases getting weary of all the cobblestones—I am surprised my wheels have not fallen off yet.  The hotel was adequate and clean.
The highlights of my short day in Amsterdam: the Van Gogh museum, the canal ride around the city and the Berger Bar!!! 
We went to a morning meditation meeting early on Monday (7:30am) which was very peaceful.  Then after breakfast in the Concert Hall café, got ourselves to the Van Gogh Museum where we were surprised to see this display of rocks. 

Turns out it is part of the Nature of Landscape exhibit which knocked my socks off.  The music and some of the lessor known artists were breath-stealing.  I was absolutely gobsmacked.

Of course, the permanent Van Gogh collection is stellar, too.  Arranged with works of artists who had influenced Vincent, the works were arranged chronologically.  There were some famous ones which are always far more spectacular in person.  And, some I did not know about.  




What a fantastic morning.
Again, we looked for the elusive Burger Bar.  Frustrated because there are two locations and we cannot find either!  Both Nancy & I are good with maps and directions, but damn. Vexing.  Same problem here as in Prague—street names are full of too many consonants and too many vowels. So Riikstaadt Neikolke is NOT the same as Rikstaat Neilkomke

Anyway, after our canal cruise, we got lucky.
Sites along the canals.
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Many, many charming homes on the water, too.  Some, like the one below, date back to the 14th Century.

And the infamous Burger Bar—entirely worth the search.  I had an Angus Beef burger with gorgonzola and onions.  Nancy had Irish beef with cheddar.  And the fries were out of the world.  If this place was in the US, it would make In-N-Out go broke.  Not comparable.  So, good tip.

There is room at the counter for four stools and there are three other stools.  That's it.  We were impressed and I hear that Nancy returned yesterday for more. It was a unique food experience.



I kept wondering why the brick architecture in Amsterdam reminded me of orphanages.  
BTW, in the foreground  is one of many houseboats on the canals.

Well, when I got home and googled it, I found the answer.  Here is the Los Angeles Orphanage—predecessor to Maryvale. 

 It was staffed by the Daughters of Charity—remember these habits? The headdress instead of veils intrigued me as a kid—especially when they would come to the Mission to bring a new girl to school.  The nickname of this order of nuns was:  God’s Geese. 

(I remember thinking if I were cursed with a “vocation,” that it would be important to pick the order by what their costume looked like.  I thought that the BVMs had a slick look compared to our Dominican nuns.)  Bishop Amat sought them out in Maryland to come take care of the orphans in Los Angeles. This building (the Los Angeles Orphan Asylum) was at the corner of Alameda and Macy (Ceasar Chavez now).  Later, they moved to land in San Gabriel and renamed the orphanage Maryvale. 

The shadow of orphans hung over my early childhood. As a student at Little Flower of Jesus Missionary House—an orphanage in Lincoln Heights that admitted girls from “broken homes” in 1954, I was feted to a number of charity events staged by the wealthy for orphans.  Despite the protests of my mother that I should not be invited to the Cardinal’s Christmas party for orphans, the nuns insisted I was part of their flock.  So, charity balls and luncheons complete with orphans colored my early experiences.  I will dig out photos from those days when I get home.

The whole time waiting for the delayed flight, I was reminiscing about those orphans, my time at Little Flower with the Mexican Carmelite nuns, and later years at San Gabriel Mission with the Maryvale girls coming and going from foster care with the Daughters of Charity.

I was a student at the Little Flower of Jesus Missionary House for Orphans when I was 4-5 years old.  Dropped off in the morning and picked up in the late afternoon—I was one of two children who were not orphans (Dennis Lynch was the only other one; he was the only other white child and he was the only BOY!  Poor kid.). Nobody spoke English.  The Carmelite nuns spoke only Spanish as did the resident children. I was often the “odd man out” for having a different background, freckles, and parents.  


Below is a recollection about my loving grandfather which tells so much about how the Irish men of my childhood were so kind, sensitive and nurturing.

Grampa O'Donovan

One day, I got sick shortly after arrival.  I threw up on the kindergarten floor.  Per procedure, the nuns spread out sawdust and all the other children gawked. They must have telephoned for me to be picked up.  Grandpa O’Donovan arrived in his “hoopi.”  The children were wild with accusations and recriminations:  “Sus padres no la quiero. Le dieron “kool aid” para el desayuno.”  Tranlate:

She has a mother and father but they do not love her because they give her “kool aid” for breakfast.
On top of humiliation and embarrassment of vomiting, I was injured by these false accusations.  When my Grampa arrived, he wrapped me in a wool blanket and carried me downstairs to the car. I wept and told him, “Please tell them it was grape juice not Kool aid.”

My dear grandfather could not have any possible idea why that mattered.  Yet, he heard my anguish.  The 70 year old man carried this sick 4 year old back up more than 130 steps to the classroom.  Wrapped up in his arms, I remember my Grandpa interrupting the circle of kids on floor to say, “Excuse us.  Just wanted to tell everyone that she had Welch’s grape juice not’ Kool Aid’  for breakfast.”  Back down the stairs.
My grandfather could not have known why that “correction” mattered. He did it anyway.  I think that between him, my Dad, and most of my uncles,  I assumed that men were all basically good people who could be trusted. And, that has pretty much been my experience.

My Granpa O’D used to take the grandkids on walks around the “old fashion” road which was a dirt path above Lincoln High school that circled the O'Donovan house.  In 1955 there were twelve (12) O’Donovan grandkids, and he would gather us up in the afternoons when he was done fiddling around in the garage with his pipe fitting tools and his cars (all old hoopis with cool gear shifting knobs).  At some point in every walk, he would stop.  He would retrieve his pocket knife and a roll of fruit flavor lifesavers.  Always kept in a neat roll with no extra paper on top, his knife would slice off one and offer it on the blade to one of us.  It never occurred to me that his “hand” was involved.  The girls were always offered the red or orange.  Magically, on the boys’ turn, the lifesaver was either green or white (least liked flavors). Yellow was the default color going randomly to next up.

I have lot more photos of the weekend travels, but will save for another time.


Beware the Ides of March tomorrow!